I was life coaching a woman who was allowing her husband to continually push her buttons. She was separated and soon to be divorced. This woman had explained to me that just seeing her husband sent her into a tail spin. I had her imagine that he was in front of her now. Her whole body changed. The look on her face changed. Her shoulders drooped, the corners of her mouth pulled toward the ground and she almost looked as though she was physically ill. (She had created an anchor that when she saw him {or imagined she saw him} negative feeling entered her body). It was obvious to me that she was giving up her personal power and allowing herself to be effected emotionally to a large degree. As many do, she was trapped in blame. She was very busy blaming him for the way the relationship was turning out. I was planning at this point to have a lengthy conversation to help her understand that she was creating the feelings in her body. That she was completely responsible for her feelings of anger, frustration and hurt etc. (She created these feelings again while I was with her just…